We live in a world where kindness is traded by batter, Where little help needs something in exchange. one feels the guilt when that thing needed in exchange was not delivered.

A friendship request for promotion in office. In some aspect today, It’s not mostly by merit, but what we have in exchange. Love which is supposed to be a choice has turned into condition. If they don’t accept, then no promotion.

I have been a victim of subjection due to kindness offered to me. I always had to obey to show appreciation even if it may not be in my favor. The question is, how long can one continue being a subject because of a kind gesture. I am not implying that it’s not good to be good or good to show appreciation. There are goodness that gives people advantage over others.

I don’t accept every kind gesture these days, I will rather request to pay in order to have it to maintain my peace of mind. A great scholar once told me to fear the word FREE. According to him it’s more dangerous than sword.

There is a great different between an offer from the heart and an intentional one

In an offer from the heart, there is no expectations after it is rendered. Just make good use of it. An intentional offer deprives the benefactor peace…